Singapore Circuit Breaker Day #9

When we moved house last year, I specially allocated a room to be the husband’s work room.

A man is the head of the household.

To me, it is very crucial to use Feng Shui to strengthen the man’s authority at work, money-making abilities and his status at home. During my Feng Shui audits, I have done the same for some of my male clients.

We used to stay with his parents and at that time, he could only use the dining table to do work.

He is a man who likes quietness.

When he worked at home in the night, the noises from the TV, the incessantly barking poodle, the cries from his niece and nephew or their playing would often leave him in a bad mood and lower his productivity.

Hence in March last year, I made up my mind and flatly told him, “We will move out at end of the month.”

He was caught by surprise and asked why my sudden decision.

Instinct. It was time to walk out.

I do not leave a way back once I make a decision.

When I said I would move in April, I kept to my words, giving my in-laws a shock as well.

Choosing the house, getting Shifu to audit the Feng Shui, buying furniture, moving house, these were all done in a matter of four weeks.

To me, when a decision needs to be made, it has to be made swiftly. There’s no need to be wishy washy.

Just like doing Feng Shui audits and analysing Bazi, I must be fast, firm and accurate.

My in-laws’ home was not very well-planned. If we are still staying there, given the current work-from-home situation due to Covid-19, it would be a real headache to accommodate eight persons and one barking dog.

Honestly speaking, looking back at my decision one year ago, I am also impressed by my own decisiveness at that time.

The husband is obviously much happier after our house move.

He says he is happy because I am happy. Well, I am happy because he is happy. 😄

Now that we work from home, every morning after his bath, he would hole up in his home office room for a few hours before I would see him.

I can tell that he is very pleased and satisfied at having his own work space. During his childhood, he had never have a space that he could work at.

Yesterday, a Dharma sister told me that I was very quick and serious in producing my Youtube videos

One of the reasons is that my home doesn’t really have any recreational area. We have no TV or sofa, since we don’t watch TV. That saves us money and space.

I work in my living room which is spacious and the Feng Shui set-up done by my Shifu increases my productivity and boost my inspiration.

When humans have many entertainment choices, we are bound to get distracted.

I am very clear on what I want. I can do without all other unnecessary things so as to reach my goals faster and earlier.

Now the husband can do his work and video calls in his home office. I can do my own work and online Bazi/Feng Shui consultations at my own desk. We do not disturb each other, as we work and live happily in harmony.

A harmonious family breeds prosperity.

After living here for one year, my income has increased three folds and currently, there is no plunge due to the epidemic.

Last week, a client told me not to poke fun at my husband although it was cute.

I laughingly told the husband, “See, I have created such a great image of you on my Facebook that even my female client feels bad for you!”

I did several Feng Shui adjustments to his work room, both inside and outside. He was not aware of them. I did not tell him about it.

Good home Feng Shui should not be easily detectable to the untrained eye. Once people step inside the home, they will feel cosy and linger longer without knowing why, yet enjoying the energies that nourishes their bodies and minds.

We do not fight often and upon moving here, we quarrel even less.

If there is a cockroach flying in the air, he will be in charge of screaming while I am in charge of catching the pest.

If there is a lizard taking a stroll in our home, I take over the screaming while he takes charge of catching it.

I say we really do make a perfect match for each other, right? Right.

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