I have handled many cases of female clients whose husbands committed infidelity. My clients were in so much grief and pain that they either intended to or have attempted to commit suicide several times but failed.

They said the same thing. That having been betrayed by the man whom they deeply loved, their lives had lost all significance and they no longer know how to continue living.

I asked what would happen to their children?

They would replied that the husband loved the kids and would take care of them.

Don’t be stupid. If he had truly loved them, he would not have cheated.

I would also joke, “Lucky you didn’t die, otherwise my Zoom call cannot be scheduled in the day time. I will have to go to hell to find you for our Zoom call, and must be after midnight. Then I must charge you for overtime work!”

I tried my best to comfort and guide the client onto a clear path, in the limited time we have.

I am also a woman. How will I not understand the excruciating pain of being betrayed by the man who had taken the vows to be with me “till death do us part”?

The client cried and shouted, “My life is such a failure. What do I have to give to my children?”

As long as you don’t go and die, you will be teaching your daughters and sons the confidence and courage a woman can have.

Among my many videos, those on topics of love and marriage have lower views. Yet there are audience who share these videos with their family and friends who are experiencing such agony in their personal lives.

This is why I never decide on a topic based on viewership. I decide based on whether it can help people.

Suicide isn’t liberation. Next time I will do a video that talks about the karmic implications of such love triangles.

And by the way, sisters, ghosts who committed suicide by jumping down really really look ugly with their broken limbs and open wounds. I am not kidding you.

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