Love And Bread Please

That’s me, delighted to find a vending machine after a 3-hour Feng Shui audit.

I was not offered any drink by the client. Haha, no lah, I think they did, but I don’t have a habit of drinking when I am on my feet working. Then again there are also clients who do not bother and I will make a mental note of their generosity. 😉

If there is one word my clients often used to describe my services, it would be — detailed.

How do I make sure I do my Feng Shui audit well?

By always imagining that it is my own home.

Put myself into the shoes of the client.

If I am facing debt problems, cash flow problems, work issues, what do I hope for the Feng Shui master to do for me?

Many people are not inherent believers of Feng Shui, especially in a Westernised society like Singapore, so for them to take the step to engage me is a very big mindset shift.

So I take it upon myself for them to see the value of Feng Shui, in the short 2 hours I have with them.

Life can be unpredictable.

It all starts out from two persons falling in love and deciding to commit each other, hopefully, for the rest of their lives.

Then they buy a house, get married and start a family. In whichever order, depending on how well-planned the couple is.

That is supposed to be the route to happiness and eventual destination in Life, as we are all taught by societal norms.

Then things just start happening.

I have clients asking me when they can get blessed with children.

I tell them, every life is precious but not every child is a blessing.

Two persons, who vow to love each other till the oceans dry out and the stones rot, can be torn apart because of parenting differences. Put in-laws in the marriage equation, and the differences blow up to WWIII proportions.

If the child is “difficult” or often sick, it puts a strain on the parents. So whose turn is it now to take paternity leave?

You know what is the hardest part after giving so much to your children? For some, it is when their children are not academically inclined – in other words, cannot study. Problems at home also become problems at school. As if scolding the children at home isn’t enough, now you have to listen to the teachers telling you.

For others, it is when their children defy them.

I notice a trend though. Sometimes it’s parents who are doing fine in their career, that seem to have the most prominent problems at home.

If their career is full of problems, their children do not give much headache and they also have an understanding spouse.

And you say, that’s why people tell you you can’t have it all, because that is how Life is being “fair”.

I say that’s rubbish. Fact is, you do not have enough good fortune to have all these good in your life. You know how to use your good fortune, but you do not know how to replenish it. So when it’s gone, you are left with never-ending problems.

It’s true some Bazi are better off not married or having any children. But since we cannot reversed what had happened, your best bet is to take a long hard look at your home Feng Shui.

A person in debts or with cash flow problems will have a home that look just like that. A home of stuck energies.

There’s a Chinese saying: If the upper beam is not straight, the lower beam will be crooked. Why do you have children who are rude? Chances are that the parents themselves are such, but they do not realise.

And the home environment will have living patterns that breeds such insolence.

If your home has dead energies, your career get stuck.

If your home arrangement is not aligned to receive auspicious energies, you will always find yourself struggling for happiness and prosperity.

The problem I find with people is they are very used to suffering.
And that is dumb.

I have clients who write to me, saying that they are not facing much problems, but just want to see Feng Shui or Bazi.

Then during the analysis, the more I say, the more worms come swimming out from the can.

It is terrifying that they are conditioned to think that it is normal that Life is full of problems.

It is not. It should not be.

Even if all that you and your colleagues gossip and whine about over lunch is each other’s spouse and children, it is not NORMAL that things should be wrong.

Why would we work so hard in everything only to be unhappy? Is that stupid or what?

A house that has no love cannot be a home.

A home that has only love and no money always struggle to find lasting happiness.

I’m not sure about you, but I think money is essential to keep a family going.

I saw how the lack of money drove a wedge between my parents.

They fought over money, and then, everything else also become “quarrel-able”.

I couldn’t understand why, and every time I look at my parents’ nice studio wedding photo, I kept asking myself how could two persons who went through so much together fight as if they are each other’s foe?

Just what went wrong?

I got my answer when I could analyse their Bazi and recall the Feng Shui of my childhood home.

I’m not sure what I really want to write over here, because there is so much going on in my mind every time I see a client.

I sometimes feel so sad for the client who cannot see his/her problems or lack the resolve to work things out.

I don’t give up on anybody, but there are people who give up changing themselves after creating a mess in their own lives.

I saw the Feng Shui of Yeng Hwee’s house 2 years ago. Last I heard, he is doing well. And I hope both in love and money, and of course, health too.

He dropped me this thank-you note in September, which I was really happy to receive.

There are many highly educated people in Singapore, but unfortunately, not many are educated on how to transform their destinies, much less that of their loved ones. With my Luo Pan in hand, I aspire to help as many people as possible, but only if they are willing to work on themselves. So would you be the next one?

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